851 Tweets in eight hours. Women’s violence report

A valuable perspective and analysis of women in dire need of effective support

Yet women’s violence reports are still high. They redundantly encounter stalking, harassments, threats, and in the worst scenario they may get murdered. “Locked in the domestic walls”, women are like the centre of a dartboard where men’ s violence outbusrts hit the mark.

The thing that prompted myself to shed light on this abhorrent phenomenon has been a comment I have posted on twitter replying to a concerning complaint of a lady. Her statement was:

“I’m getting destroyed day to day “

 I replied to her statement saying:

“Most of the times in a couple starts a sort of reciprocal addiction that becomes toxic lowering positive relationship outcomes. It is difficult to come out of a troubling and complex interrelation But your own life is the most invaluable gift given over to the humankind and its existence. Your partner should be aware of that and let you be yourself.”

The comment above lured the audience so that it rapidly received 851 views in eight hours. The few lines I had posted was getting on receiving further views, which continued to multiply in the following days. In first instance, I was dumbfounded at viewing that amount of visitors.

But as a critical-thinker, in hindsight, I fathomed that I was getting into a complicated and burning topic.

Women often fall in love with possessive and jealous men. Once enamoured the couple lives a magic atmosphere. Inebriated senses don’t allow them to pondering partner’s behaviour. A dropout manifestation of possessiveness and jealousy may appear suddenly, or in short/long term.

Once they start to cohabit the drudgery of duties and habits of the new lifestyle may increase general stress, which paves the way to first contrasts and rows amid the partners. Men commence to display a violent temper on account of jealousy and possession ( whose rate is abnormal), snide comments and ancient grudges among the couple fuel a wholly concerning atmosphere.

Rage spring up in the form of verbal attacks (usually broken statements shouted). When verbal attacks aren’t perceived as a warning by women there is a total loss of anger’s control, eventually physical attacks take place. We are in the presence of a psychotic disorder, in particular, obsessive jealousy.

Men express a symptom of persistent uncertainty on partner’s fidelity; as a consequence men become paranoid and anxious. When fears and uncertainty increase we assist to what I have mentioned earlier.

Hurdles and insignificant solutions have highlighted the complicated topic displaying further a real social issue to be tackled. Governments, which in the distant past (before 1975) were as deaf as post in front of a concerning and increasing phenomenon finally gave birth to the International Tribunal for crimes against women (Bruxelles 1976).

We waited the nineties to view a provision of more effective laws in order to diminish harming behaviours on women’s body and psyche. Despite further reinforcement of punishments on offenders women feel to be left high and dry, handling on their own violence attacks.

These behaviours, in proliferation, are supported by specific aspects as:

Family background, historical and cultural legacy, area in which offenders has spent their childhood and teenage years. Statements, as in the dialogue, I cited above tend to increase on the ground that offenders and victims when arguing express respectively power and fear sensations.

Both Men and women hide those sensations fearing repercussions; as a result women still avoid immediate reports to the Police Department. In fact Police investigators steadily look into the interactions to stripping away any type of violation occurs.

Once, few years ago I saw a man behaving and acting violently on his young wife. That man was a brute grown up in a rough area, fully uneducated, the woman was uneducated too. In light of that it is paramount that a constant family and school support is fostered during particular age I have already mentioned. Violence generally is widespreaded in rough area.

Everyone is involved in this ever present issue as a discriminatory and violation act on human being. Since the creation of the planet earth two humans, Adam and Eve, are beckoned to live together in peace and joyful. When we muse on this words we are already on the route of togetherness, subsequently , safe social cohesion and development.